What we have been sharing in churches while we have been stateside

       Well, our furlough time is coming to a close...we have a month and a half left and with more travels left to do, holidays and getting ready to go back-it will FLY by!  I am trying not to stress and stay focused on doing everything that needs to be done and fit in all the things I would really love to do before we go back.  I am already praying for our transition back, for all of us, especially the kids.  This goodbye this time will be harder for Eden than it was last time.  And then we are back to it just being us all the time, minus all the extended family.  Back to a routine and a schedule.  Back to the basics lifestyle.  It is always hard for me to keep adjusting to change.  I personally hate change usually and as a missionary, you have to be flexible!  I will be fine, it just always takes time.  Time to get settled in before we move again, haha!  All this to say life is about to get crazier!  Not to complain bc I am so excited and love my life, love what we do, but it is trying on me.  Those of you reading this who pray, I COVET your prayers for this next phase in our lives!!!  

      We have been loving almost every minute of our home assignment and have gotten to reconnect with many churches and individuals.  Jeremiah has shared in quite a few churches now and one of the times was recorded for those of you who didn't have the chance to hear him share.  Below is the link to listen to an adult Sunday School class he shared with a couple weeks ago.  Click on the link, go to the number 3 option under audio where it says "other" and Jeremiah's audio clip should be 1st on the list. At minute 14 he shows our 11 minute video of his trip interior to visit the Dem tribe. It is an awesome video that you obviously can't see on the audio download so I will put the link for it under the audio link so that you can watch it separately.  

Audio link:

http://www.newlifebfc.org//index.php?option=com_xemusicgalx&Itemid=92


Video of J's trip into the Dem tribe:

http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DgfOwhu-4Vtk&h=vAQF9Cyjn

Hope you enjoyed getting a little peak into our future ministry! 

Short, but SWEET!!

There hasn't been a new blog post for a few months for a few reasons...#1-we moved and have been crazy busy since, #2-my computer decided it was too old and tired to turn on anymore and all my info and pics were on there.  But today is a big day.  

Today is the day our 2nd set of coworkers move into the Dem tribe!!!!!!!  I am so excited and so burdened for them.  I wish I could have been there help them prepare to move in, but we are here right now and I have to be patient on the Lord.  They have been in my prayers all day and I hope you will pray for them in these next few months of adjustment too! 

The view will not be lacking!!

 The VanRensberg's house

 The Teall's house

 The bathroom so far!

The kitchen so far

How exciting is it that our team has begun to move into the Dem tribe and is currently settling into their houses/building relationships with the tribal people!  I'm excited!:) And can't wait to join them next year!  These pictures are the newest ones I had, but they have made even more progress since these pictures.

Pictures in Papua Part 1

Here are just a few pictures from our 14 months in Papua, starting in the beginning and I will add more as I find them.  Many people have asked about everyday life details there, and although I don't have a lot of pictures of cultural stuff,  I have a lot of pictures of the beautiful people in our life there and will put any other interesting ones I have up.  Feel free to ask questions and I can write about specific topics if there is something specific you are wondering about in a future blog.

God blessed us with some amazing neighbors this past year, including several kids Eden's age to play with in the neighborhood:)  Aren't they cute??!!

And a friendly church that accepted us as their own

Making friends right outside our front door

Church potluck...I tried a bite of Papeda (in the bowl), a traditional Papuan food that is difficult to eat...feel free to google it for more details.

Birthday party for a neighbor who turned 1

Visitors from friends at church

Ibu Juni LOVES Jericho!!!

The thing about that is, is once he got a little older, she was the only one on the street he wouldn't go to...he would cry as soon as he saw her coming.  I felt bad bc she wanted to hold him the most.  Something about Jericho...he doesn't like when people make a fuss over him.

Our puppy, Muffin.  Her and Eden are play buddies outside

Jericho always wanted in her cage

How we get around

Gas station

Eden and her closest Indonesian buddy, Sesil...and man, are they cute together...we really miss her and all our Indonesian friends!

Funny story about this...embarrassed to say that when we first moved there, I discovered what I thought were tadpoles in our water tank...Eden and I had a couple hours of fun fishing them all out and putting them in different jars to watch the metamorphose of them turning into frogs.  We were both really excited, lol...only to watch one of our baby "tadpoles" turn into a mosquito a few days later!!  Oh man, did I feel stupid...and bad for Eden bc she was so excited to have frogs, instead we had to kill all our baby mosquitos before they got loose in the house, but I couldn't help but laugh at myself!  That water tank was breeding grounds for dumb mosquitos our whole year there.  Now, I know what mosquitos look like in their larva stages. So, hey!  It was still a science project of sorts;)

Stay posted for more!

It's about time!!

For a new blog post I guess....(insert the bashful face)!  I apologize to those of you who look on here for details or updates.  See, the problem is I want it to be full of information, capture every detail and every cool picture of the culture we live in, but I just can't do that.  Too time consuming, and too frustrating for someone who is not tech savvy like myself.  So, I am going to try to settle to just put a little here and there as I can...better than nothing, right!?

Want to start off with the exciting progress of our teammates house building in the Dem tribe!  Two of the four units on our team, the Van Rensburg and Teall families have been given the go ahead to start building their homes in the Dem tribe, where we plan on moving into as soon as we can also.  We are very excited for them and wish we could be there to help and join them, but God has us patiently waiting as of now.  Here are some pictures of their houses coming along...

The Van Rensburg family's house progress....

June 2013

July 2013

August 2013

The Teall family's house progress...

August 2013

If you could please take some time to pray for all of us on the team going to Dem we would greatly appreciate it!  Especially Dylan Van Rensburg and Logan Teall as they are in there right now continuing to build their homes.  It is rough living until you have a house up.  It is hard to stay strong I am sure because of the elevation, the sleeping arrangements, the lack of food supply, etc.  Pray for them to stay in good health!   And pray for their wives who are at home with the kids in a foreign country without modern conveniences or family to help out.  It gets lonely and exhausting.  I myself am dreading that stage of J being away for so long!  Gives me whole new appreciation for those families who don't have a Daddy or husband, and thankful for those who serve our country...it is a great sacrifice for them and their families. 

As for our other teammates, the Currie family, who have not started the building process yet, they are hard at work studying the national Indonesian language in town right now, hoping to get checked out to start building soon also.  And as for us, we are busy on furlough...traveling, spending time with family, churches, and supporters, getting ready for our future move to Dem!  So, the prayer requests for that would be endurance for the Currie's and safety and profitable time for us.

So excited for these families and the future hope of meeting and living with the Dem tribe ourselves one day, hopefully soon!

"DEM-LAND"

OUR FIRST SURVEY TO "DEM-LAND."

        Well I know its been a while since we've gotten back from our trip interior & we apologize for not putting a post up sooner but its been crazy here plus if you factor in the fact that it took me almost 12 hours to upload a couple of pictures and starting/rebooting modem & computer several times for it to finish it was something that needed some time. :) Anyways, this is just a brief summary of what went down on the trip. I (Jay) am writing this post about the actual survey & Bri is going to write a post about her & the kiddos time at our friends house interior while we were doing the survey. Thanks for being interested in whats going on & hope this can give you all a lil better picture of what we are doing. love u all!!

So this is a view from the top of the airstrip in dem. crazy to think in a year or so, this is going to be the view from our front porch....

         SO we flew into Dem on a monday morning and were greeted by all of these people. they were running around, dancing, singing, it was pretty sweet. after that went on for a little bit everyone sat down and they had "talks" which is very normal in these tribes. everyone sits and a big man will stand up and say something, then another big man will say something, & so-on. After this went on for about an hour & half we got up and they took us to where we would be sleeping for the next couple nights. (didn't have a pic of that sorry) we stayed in a traditional mens hut, small & smoky. 

          After getting settled in we hiked up the mountain a little bit to get information about villages that were around or near the airstrip. This was our primary goal for this survey. (besides actually meeting the Dem of course.) Dem already has an airstrip that they built years ago hoping to attract a missionary. This is a huge blessing. Most missionaries in the highlands of papua spend years & thousands of dollars trying to build an airstrip & Dem has one. Its very strange to have a tribe with an airstrip that has never had missionaries before but this is just one of the many amazing blessings we discovered on this survey. Anyways, since there is an airstrip we pretty much new where we would want to build our houses....near the airstrip of course. But we had to do research first. If there wasn't a good enough population around the airstrip then living there would not be a good idea, so we needed to gather as much info about what was around the strip as far as population, if there was any water sources, places to build 4 houses & a few other things.

         What we found was more than any missionary could ever hope or dream of from a tribal church planting perspective. There is a HUGE population around the airstrip, 2 different natural water sources that we can tap into and running water in our tribal homes, (a huge blessing that many missionaries dont have) area to build, the right kind of trees to build houses, etc... As we were going around we were just blown away at how many blessings this area had to offer. Things that aren't a necessity but a huge blessing when it comes to living in the jungle.

When we first landed all of the Dem & some people from another tribe gathered together for our arrival! 

Nmbal & Liku.....great guys! 

        The first couple of days we walked around 
to different hamlets, we got word list which basically means we found a guy who could speak some indonesian so we could ask him how to say a word in the Dem language. such as dog, house, water, etc... We got over 200 words. We checked out the natural streams and vegetation. Tried to understand some cultural things, & had a pig feast. They killed 12 pigs, cooked tons of sweet potatoes & greens and threw a big ole tribal style feast to thank us for coming. To the right here ----> is the group of people that were helping us get the word list. 
      Nmbal & Liku are some amazing guys. Liku, (the one in the back) is from another tribe and is a believer who has a sweet spirit and loves the Lord. Nmbal is a "big man" in Dem and has never had the chance to hear God's love story, he is and will be a huge asset to us as we move to "Dem-land." He is one of the guys that has been begging for missionaries for years & is so excited that we are going to be moving there in the next year.

In the top pic you can see me and one of the head guys for the area who was with us on a hike. In the bottom pic I was trying to get some info from Nmbal but that can be very difficult when we dont speak the same language. :) Luckily he knew a lil bit of Indonesian.

A great spot for a photo!!

We walked the airstrip to see possible locations to build houses and other info...

          After a couple of days at the airstrip we hiked a couple of hours to another village where some really important guys were from and we wanted to show them some respect by staying with them for a night. That was pretty easy trail except we had to hike pretty fast so we could make it to the village before dark. We made it just in time, got our sleeping bags set up ate some dinner and talked with some of the guys there. 

            That night we learned that a couple of the "big men" had done a leaf burning ritual before we got there and the leaves said that we (the pale skinned people) were going to fall in the river on the hike out of Dem & die & that their hearts were very heavy/worried for us. This just showed us how lost these people truly are. Several years ago a Dem man was crossing the vine bridge at the bottom of the mountain, the bridge broke and he drowned in the river. This was still very heavy on their hearts because they said they had done the same leaf ritual years before & the leaves said he was going to die & he did. Through a couple of translators we just explained that we aren't afraid & that Yahweh knows the exact day we will die regardless of where we are and so they didn't need to worry about us. 

             

this was on the hike from one village to a different one. it was soo cool hiking for a couple hours with so many people. They were singing and yelling.....pretty awesome!

        The next day we woke up at took off on our big hike. 2,000+ft straight down, then 2,000+ft straight up. It took us a couple of hours to get to the bottom where the vine bridge was that we had to cross. The whole time I wasn't really worried about the bridge but after seeing it and getting on it I was a lil bit nervous. It was a lot higher than I thought and the river was a lot bigger & faster than expected. (plus these things are made for tribal guys that are 5'ft tall & 100lbs. We all made it across, no problems and at the bottom was a great little pool of ice cold water that we jumped in and cooled off. We rested for a lil bit then headed up. We knew it was going to be rough as 2,000ft straight up anywhere isn't fun, let alone on a slippery, papuan mountain. They were saying it should take us about 3 hrs to get to where we were gonna stay that night. About a hour and a half into it, me & Logan hit a wall. I thought I was going to pass out several times as the air is so thin and we were just not used to hiking these jungle trails. (You may be laughin it up right now but for real.... these jungle trails are unlike any trail you may have hiked in the states) 

      Anyways, me & Logan just kept slowly making it up the mountain. Our buddy Mike (the guy who lives in the tribe across the mountain and is basically a tribal man & who was our guide for the survey) & a tribal believer (the tribal guy holding my hand in the pic from the house building trip) stayed with us and just kept pushing us forward. At one point the tribal guy stopped and prayed for us which was pretty sweet. We then made it to a little garden house where we decided to take a long rest. We thought we still had over a hour of hiking left and we were getting worried about making it before it got dark so we set a time limit for how long we could rest.  

     During the rest, the same tribal guy who stuck with us gave me a lil massage (amazing let me tell you) and we ate some snacks to get up our energy but I was dreading the rest of the hike. All of a sudden Mike realizes where we were and says we are only 15 minutes from where we were going to sleep that night. i told him to "shut-up" because I thought he was messing with me. But he wasn't lying. 15 minutes later we had arrived at the place we were going to stay for the night. It was where  Mike used to live & where his co-workers still were living so we got to take showers, eat some spaghetti and sleep on some cushions which was pretty awesome. 

       The next day we woke up and hiked another 1,500 ft but it wasn't as bad because we were in no rush. We just simply had to make it before dark. About lunch time we made it to Mike house (7,000+ft elevation) and I was greeted with my family waiting for me with hugs & kisses. We spent a couple of days at Mikes house helping fix a couple of things and just talking about what we saw and whats next for the Dem.

You cant tell from this pic but this bridge was about 20 ft high, over a fast river. a lil sketchy! 

        This was an awesome survey trip & we learned a lot about the Dem and what we need to do next. Our plan is to do another survey trip sometime in Feb/March to take in some tools for working on the airstrip. (We had a pilot come in with us and check & see what the strip needs to become operational & we were pleased with the check) The next trip will consist primarily of confirming with the head guys in Dem when we will be moving in permanently &  figure out where we all want to build our houses, & help them work on the airstrip for a couple of days. 

          For me the next survey will be critical to get as much info as possible since a couple of our teammates are going to be moving in while we are on furlough so we need to make sure we all are on the same page. Thank you all for your prayers & faithful support. It has been frustrating at times wondering when we will ever make it to the tribe or IF we EVER will. But God has opened the doors for us to work in an area that is literally a dream location. It is clear to us that this is where God wants us. He doesn't need us but wants us to trust Him and see what He has in store not just for the Dem but for the Stokes family also.  We are very excited to show you all some more pictures and videos of the Dem and share with you all in person about the Dem. Please continue to pray as there are sooo many things that go into moving interior from government officials giving us the "ok," finances,  co-workers, etc... We'd love to hear from you all. God Bless!

This was on the flight in...the scenery is unbelievable in the highlands of papua. 

This is a jungle airstrip..... not for the faint of heart!!

An incredible house building/answer to SOOO many prayers trip....

          As many of you know, I (Jay) along with 4 other guys took a trip interior from July 30-August 8th.  This trip was 2 fold. #1-Help a fellow church planter build his house. #2- make contact with a people group that we could possibly move to permanently to plant a church.  The family we were going to help have been there for almost 6 years & have already presented the Gospel & have a group of believers there now.  For the past 5 years they have been living in a home that they built when they first moved to the Wano tribe & it was always just a temporary home.

            This trip had 2 very big unknowns. #1-We had NO idea how difficult is to build a house in the jungle. #2- We had NO idea how God was going to challenge us for Tribal Church Planting!!  I could write a short book on all that happened & experienced in just a span of 9 days interior, but as for this post I am just going to comment on each picture and will email our contact list for of the details of the trip. (If your not on the email list let us know) ENJOY!!

This is their meeting  for believers in this village.  There are no stain glass windows, projectors, or suits here.  Just a small group of people, who 3 years ago had no knowledge of their King that came to die for them.  Truly a group of people who cherish Yahweh above anything else.  AWESOME!!

2 of the head guys greeting us when we got there....

This is where the work crew (the 4 of us) stayed.  It was about 5ft to the peak & maybe 10-12 ft wide. Had a spot for a 'lil fire inside which kept us warm, but extremely smokey. (Oh & yes it was cold there.  It's about 7,2000 ft elevation)

                              
                                

  

                              

Not a bad spot to build a house, eh? This place was GORGEOUS! We took many coffee breaks just staring across the different valleys

Our current house, before and after pictures

Our house before

 

 

 and after...

 

Ruang tamu. aka: room for entertaining guests.

I begged J to keep the horse painting, but he wouldn't let me;))  

 

 

 

Haha! This is how a lot of our lighting was. We saved this one like this for kicks and giggles, I call it our party light.

 Living room and office before (notice all the wires everywhere and sweet colors!)

 

after. Now my favorite space although small.

 

Eden's room before (we had to repair almost all the walls in the house due to water and mold damage/leaks. Unfortunately, it didn't really work and the stains are back on our new paint:( )

 

after:) We had this space saving bed made in Java, but I hate it because when she sleeps, I can barely see or reach her! I want to save it for when she is a teenager, but then she will be too tall to go underneath it, lol 

 

Powder room before, complete w/ a squatty potty!

 

powder room after ( i am going to stop w/ the before and after captions, since I am hoping you can tell which is before and after;))

 

Our room